Slowing down at the holidays seems like an oxymoron, but actually, I think it’s more congruent with the holiday spirit than all the rushing around we do in the modern age.

Have you noticed that the characters in the best old holiday movies seem to move in slow motion?  They have all the time in the world — to bake, sing carols around the piano, take the family out to chop down the Christmas tree, make gifts for charity, etc.

The only way I can make this my reality it to decide it is my reality. Of course, I have a new book to promote, a busy business to run, and a family to care for, so how do I slow down?  Here’s some tips:

• Take time off from work whenever possible.  This is the slow season for many people so take advantage of it.  Look at your sick, vacation and personal days and use them.  Choose not to let it stress you out.  Take a few half days if that’s easiest.  It will feel really good to leave work at lunch and take the afternoon off!
• Do the things that make you happy.  Learn to smile graciously and say, sorry, can’t do it (when you don’t want to do something).
• Cancel if necessary.  If you have a conflict, you have a conflict.  Be nice, but learn to take care of your needs first. (Don’t waste time feeling guilty!)
• Tell people you’ll get back to them after the New Year if you have no time/interest in spending holiday time doing whatever they want you to do.
• Decide exactly how you want to spend your time and stay true to yourself.

If you are looking for me this holiday season,  I’ll be in my kitchen baking, decorating the house, going out for drinks, lunch & dinner with friends, making gifts and shopping, cuddling with Hubby with movies and popcorn, and going to holiday parties. Cheers!